An open letter to those with questions…
My mother was born Sharon Lee Borden to loving parents, Walter & Jean Borden. She married my birth father, Joseph Sandy, and changed her name to Sharon Borden Sandy on their wedding day. Shortly after my birth they separated and my mom met a handsome camera assistant named Terry who became my loving stepfather and also brought on a new name, Sharon Borden Pfrang, which is the name (and the husband) she continues to have to this day.
As Anna Kelso wrote in an essay a short time ago, ” What’s in a name?” To me, a name defines who you are as a person. It tells the story of where you came from and sometimes can influence where you go in the future. It carries your family values, your traditions, and your legacy on it’s back, but it is up to you which direction you take it.
Last year I entered a new chapter in my life and married my perfect equal. When we were at the courthouse signing our marriage license I thought to myself… “What name and legacy do I want to continue as with my future family?” The name I was given at birth doesn’t harbor anything negative nor is it something I am embarrassed to be, but there is another family name that holds every value of love and devotion I could ever dream of…
Christa and I have put months of thought into this challenging decision and have decided that we want to continue our life with the adopted family name of Borden from my maternal grandfather, Walter Borden. A man who did everything he possibly could for his family and friends. A man who loved with the kindest smile and the biggest heart. A man I could only hope to be.
This will slowly become effective as we change our licenses, bank info, etc. But, we consider ourselves 100% Borden effective immediately. I hope this answers any questions you might have had as to why the name Borden is popping up. Just consider it a new beginning for your old friends.
Love,
Michel & Christa Borden
P.S. Time to get a new signature! Woot!
